What Does G-d Want: Bonding Or Bondage? – Sparks

You who are bonded with the Lord, your God, are alive, totally, today. ~ Deut. 4:4

Unfortunately, many people think “serving God” is submitting to an egomaniacal deity who dwells in heaven and demands, “You must serve me! Obey my commandments and do them with a smile! Or else I will punish you.” In other words, they fear that a life of mitzvot is about complete self-denial and surrender. They ask, “Isn’t it all about giving up what I want and doing something God wants?” But that is their ego talking, setting the soul and God against each other as if in a duel. In truth every mitzvah is an opportunity to free yourself from the prison of ego–which separates your soul from the Soul of souls –and plug yourself into the Great Self.

“Serving God” is all about freely choosing to attune your will to the will of God – your Greater Self; to bond with God and thereby serve to channel His presence into the world. We enjoy a deeply meaningful life only when we make our lives a means to bringing the presence of our shared Greater Self into the world.

Mitzvah is often translated as commandment, but that doesn’t do it justice. Mitzvah really comes from the Hebrew word that means “to connect” or “to unite.” The mistake many people make is to think of these commands as demands. They are not. A demand sounds depressing, while a command is in fact an invitation to commune, to join and connect, which is empowering and joyful.

Torah teaches that our will is a spark of the Divine will. The power that drives us on, the power we call life force, is will. It is the foundation of life; when we lose our will to live we die. The unique thing about human beings is that we have free will. The spark of the Divine will within us allows us that freedom. We are free to connect or disconnect our will to the eternal source of all will.

Torah life is all about connecting. When you choose to live the mitzvot you synchronize your individual will with the almighty will of God. In sync with God, attuned to His will, you then awaken to your true inner self and become totally alive in this world. Is there any greater reward?

 

An excerpt from my book “Living a Joyous Life”

Living a Joyous Life: The True Spirit of Jewish Practice